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Asrya posted an update 4 years, 5 months ago
forgive my rant in advance I cannot put this on Facebook it would get back to the person but I gotta get it out.
I have a friend who thought was helping us but honestly she is trying to break up my marriage and financially destroy me. everything and everyone around her must be perfect at all times. is telling me one thing telling my husband a completely different thing. she was the biggest contributor to my reason relapse and doesn’t even know, or would accept it if she was told because she is perfect and “has her shit together”.I feel like my safest option is to ghost her..didnt want to but she is ruining my family.
Sorry again for rant..
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work has me pissed off today!!! I have a idiot whiny baby coworker who never uses his off days for anything but playing video games, I play them too but fuck!, he is trying to get people to swap shifts with him in the middle of shift so he can pick up car parts threw away my food snatched the store phone out of my hand got mad cuz nobody […] View
Thank you for sharing, please don’t apologize for sharing your struggles, it helps you and others who may be struggling as well. I would suggest cutting that person off, especially if it is threatening your sobriety. I assure you someone that is acting like that doesn’t have their shit together. They are distracting themselves from something in their life that they don’t want to deal with. I hope that helps! We’re here if you need us!
thank you!! we have been living with her but we are gonna have to move out and back to my mom’s. I’m just worried about her being petty and retaliating on us. all my baby girls Christmas is over there and I don’t want them destroyed or sold my husband is going to get a few things from over there hopefully she isn’t home.
I understand, that stuff can be gotten again, but I hope she doesn’t. I hope everything works out. Maybe hit a meeting, it always makes me feel better!
my husband was able to get it.. yay! and I’ve been thinking of going to a meeting been afraid in the past but I’m stronger than that version of me so I know I can atleast walk in and sit through even if I sat nothing!!! thank you for your support today
You don’t have to say anything, just listen to others and when you are ready you can share. You are very welcome, that’s why we’re here! 🙂
@Asrya, thanks for sharing! Although we can’t continue to blame people, places , and things for our addiction, it is necessary to remove toxic people from our life.
you are right I shouldn’t have blamed her at all its on me my weakness. thank you for reminding me of that